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A mother crouching and gently holding her baby who is taking first steps outside on a pathway surrounded by grass and trees. The baby’s steps leave a trail of feathery, glowing patterns on the ground. To the right, a young boy with a backpack walks away down the path toward the sunset. Angelic white wings are subtly outlined on his back, symbolizing protection or guidance. The scene conveys warmth, growth, and a sense of spiritual presence.

Parenting as the Ultimate Lifetime Learning Journey

By keith August 7, 2026GeneralNo Comments

Formal education gets us started, but parenting is where the ultimate lifetime learning happens. Discover how navigating every stage of raising children teaches us trust, growth, and the delicate art of launching independent adults.

Two boys engaged in different activities. On the left, a boy sits cross-armed and unhappy amid various toys, including bicycles, a fire truck, blocks, and a wagon. On the right, another boy is happily digging through a large pile of hay or mulch with a shovel. He is smiling and saying, "I know there's a pony in here!" The contrast highlights one boy's frustration with toys and the other's excitement about finding a pony.

There Must Be a Pony in Here Somewhere!

By keith July 27, 2026GeneralNo Comments

I’ve been spending some time pondering the question, “Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences, or by who we are?” When it comes to understanding behavior, whether your…

A rustic wooden table inside a cozy kitchen with a bowl of vanilla ice cream garnished with raspberries and a mint leaf. Next to the bowl is a silver can opener and a partially visible piece of paper with the text "Spice of Chaos, Balancing Similarity and Adventure." In the background, through open double doors, there is a camping scene with a tent, a small campfire, and a person sitting outdoors, surrounded by nature and autumn colors.

Spice of Chaos Balancing Similarity and Adventure

By keith July 23, 2026GeneralNo Comments

Can too much similarity make a relationship dry, or does total diversity create chaos? From the comfort of vanilla ice cream to a forgotten camp can opener, explore why the secret to a strong, memorable marriage lies in balancing a unified front with a healthy splash of life's unexpected adventures.

A closed Holy Bible resting on a wooden surface. The Bible cover is white with a decorative border featuring gold and red patterns, including crosses and flames. The words "HOLY BIBLE" are prominently printed in large gold letters in the center of the cover. Below the title, there is a circular emblem with a red flame above a red chalice or cup. In the background, there is a lit candle in a holder, adding a warm, serene ambiance.

Relationship101: In Search of…

By Bartimaeus July 20, 2009DiscipleshipNo Comments

Statistically, most people will become married in their lifetime. Being married is how we pass on the family name and traditions, and leave a legacy behind us. Before a person gets married though, it takes getting to know that special person to share in your lifestyle. Maybe you are reading this and in a relationship, that's a place to start. The main purpose behind this writing today is for those who are not in a relationship, not dating anybody, and maybe have no clue about whether there is even anybody out there for you. No prospects at all, or know how to even get started in that direction. You know who you are. You're not married? Not even dating, or in a relationship? But you want to be? No garantees but here's some tips and questions to ask yourself to help you focus.